Face Time

My mother says she no longer sees 
me in my daughter
and I can sort of see what she means

some features that once resembled
me at that age
have been obscured by

features of my father or brothers
or grandmother
or aunts or uncles or cousins

and of course my mother herself
my daughter stares
back at the reflection of herself

in the corner of the screen
as she waves kisses
goodbye at the end of a facetime

sometimes I catch a screenshot
of them making
the same pose at the same time

later I’ll take a video just
to remember
what she was like at this time

and wonder what she’ll think
of herself back then
when she grows up and groans

at watching the family videos
which I’m sure
I’ll insist on from time to time

already she sees herself waving
in the screensaver
at herself she recognizes

all the faces she has been
as if everyone
who once lived that she might live

are still living

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